Advice for dating a non christian
A few days have gone by since the excitement and my heart is torn, I feel guilty for even dating a man who doesn’t follow Jesus.
The idea of my Christian friends ridiculing me for potentially marrying a no Christian and even worse the idea of disappointing God himself is bumming me out. It’s wrong to start pounding on someone just because you disapprove of something that they’ve said or done.“Verily I say unto you: do not vex me, lest I begin soundly thrashing you about your head and ears, you vapid dinkwad” is be, anyway)? If you know someone who is in a committed relationship of which you do not approve, an excellent question to ask yourself—especially before venturing to offer any opinion on that relationship—is whether or not anyone but you gives a rolled-up church bulletin what you think of that relationship.
The next time I saw Jake was when we met for dinner with mutual friends.
Over the meal, the guys swapped fraternity stories about stupid things they’d done while drunk.
Faced with the decision of whether or not to go, I finally asked a few Christian friends for advice.
Maggie, a hopeless romantic, suggested that spending a weekend together would give me the chance to discuss matters of faith.
What was most difficult to understand was how Emily, a strong Christian, could fall for such an obvious, easy-to-avoid temptation.
So when Jake asked if he could call me sometime, I gave him my telephone number and did a mental dance of joy. Plus, in daily life, most Christians will come across far more non-Christian dating potentials than devoted Christian ones. And, in a way, it may even be logical with all the confusion and droughts we’ve talked about.Besides, it’s not like both parties being Christian ensures a wonderful marriage. Christian couples get divorced as often as anyone else.
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At a friend’s wedding, I spied him in his dark suit and preppy glasses and was internally gleeful when I noticed later that he wasn’t wearing a wedding ring.