Hesitant about dating
By swiping yes to each other, you both already accept you find each other attractive.
A couple of short messages and an invitation to do something is all you need.
And in fact, the longer you wait to get one-on-one, the less likely it is to ever happen.
Like I said above, women know almost immediately whether or not romance is a possibility with a guy. Eventually they will find someone who’s serious about moving forward.
Every time you don’t follow up on a number, you’re throwing away your best shots for romance.
Because if you invite her to do something and she says no, then you might lose that sweet, sweet attention. It’s not going to move a connection forward or towards intimacy.If they’re out and single, women scan the room for potential guys. New rule: “I will assume that any woman who makes eye contact and smiles at me is open to conversation.So when a woman looks at you and smiles, she’s not just being polite. I’ll introduce myself to her.” Many guys don’t realize how easy it can be to get a girl’s number.So they overcompensate and protect themselves by pretending to be unavailable. Then they respond accordingly by acting distant to protect themselves, too. So when you finally invite her to do something, she doesn’t give you a concrete answer.They think it will make them seem more valuable and less needy. She plays it cool and says “maybe next week” or “I’m not sure what my schedule is.” You play this endlessly frustrating game where you both don’t commit to moving forward.